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At Wits End

2020.09.21 19:09 throwaway867999 At Wits End

Throwaway account obviously.
So I just felt the need to post on here, to scream into the void over a problem that I have been having with dating, and I really don't know if it's me, the sites, the people I'm messaging. I am just so fed up with everything at this point.
So I (22M) moved onto campus the first time this year for a variety of reasons. To meet new people (I was living with my parents in the absolute middle of nowhere, and it was impossible to even meet people my age at all, let alone people on the same level as me), to be closer to work, and to have a place to bring a woman to (like every woman I have dated basically cut it off when I told them where I lived and that I lived with my parents).
So because of my previous job, school, and the pandemic, I had stopped really looking and seriously looking to date or even hook up for like a year and a half, and I just got back into the swing of things a couple of months ago.
My plan wasn't to really use dating apps, but with the situation on campus (I feel like Will Smith in *I am Legend* when I walk around, it's impossible to meet people because there simply isn't anyone outside to meet on campus), I have found that is the only option to date, and honestly the apps suck so much, I'm not talking about the users at all. Like I used Plenty of Fish before, and it was great. Now, it shows me the names of people that liked me with a photo from their profile, but in order for me to view their profiles it is like $10 a month. What the hell? That's somehow worse than the guessing game Meetme makes you play, and it's not like I can find them from swiping either, because their bootleg Tinder feature doesn't even allow you to sort by age or distance. Also the UI on these apps somehow went downhill in quality. It is so bad that if I feel that I hit it off with someone after 4 or 5 messages I ask if they have a snapchat or a number I can reach them at, and they usually say yes.
The other problem I've found is actually finding women willing to go out. Now I usually start small, but honestly I start planning and talking, and then they just ghost me. I message them a few times, and they then get back to me about something coming up, but they then say that they would still want to go out on a date with me, and then never respond. In the past month I have had dates lined up on 3 of the 4 weekends, and every single person ghosted. And these are like simple coffee dates, or in one case I offered to come over and fix carbonara for one because they didn't want to go out. The issue I have had is that this happened a lot before with online dating, but I initially brushed it off as just bad luck, although it keeps happening over and over and over and over, and I am starting to think that it is just me. I absolutely hate texting or messaging people more than twice because I think it comes off as immature, obnoxious, and annoying, but I find that it often is necessary just to get a response back. I'm not upset that women aren't interested (honestly if they told me to fuck off that would be a thousand times better than this state of limbo), but I am more frustrated with how they don't even communicate with me. How am I supposed to know you have a bad day if you don't tell me?
Now reading through this, I feel like I might come off as an asshole or a prick when in reality I am just really frustrated, frustrated that I don't even know what I am doing wrong. Maybe some of you guys could give me some pointers.
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2020.09.11 23:32 Killerfrost066 underage girl scam? Please help

so i was on the dating app meetme and messaged a girl that lives about 45 minutes away her profile said she was 18. immediately she asked for my number so we can text she gives me a local number I ask if she has a picture because her profile looks shady she sends a picture of her in her underwear go i back to her profile but it was either blocked or deleted i asked her if she had Snapchat she says no and starts sending me more pics and asked for me to send some so i do then she tells me shes really 16 turning 17 next month and im like WTF 16 is legal age of consent in my state but still i tell her your cute and all but maybe hit me up when your 18 well the next night i get a text from her father threatening to take me to jail for child porn and sexting im freaking out thinking my like is over so i change my number and start looking stuff up on YouTube and reddit to see how fucked i am and come across the underage girl scam still freaking out but could use some help do these scammers use local numbers and stuff?
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2020.08.21 19:06 lreeves25 Ever Have A Good Day and Then You Feel Like Crap for Being Single

I’m definitely starting to get this sense of hopelessness in finding someone good for me. I waste my time on MeetMe and other social media to find love and come up short. I waste my energy fighting my thoughts of loneliness. It’s very weird how aggressively hard it is to be single.
I am very grateful for the things I’ve been given. An okay job. My own vehicle. A new studio apartment. I have good clothes. I have food in the fridge.
But I’m super angry cause I keep thinking about my lack of companionship. I thought I was good but today is a weak point.
Not really sure what to do. Maybe cry and the go for a walk. Or go to a Walmart and remember why I’m alone. I don’t like dealing with people unless it’s at work or school.
And the worst part is having memories of being in love and knowing that it’s not coming anytime soon and the love I did have was horrible.
This is such a weird Friday. Can’t wait to move into that studio apartment and get two cats. I move on 8/28!
The weekend is going to suck because my roommates love to bring their boyfriends over. They literally treat our shared apartment like a dumpster and sex house. I will spare the details but it’s horrible.
I seriously left on Sunday night of this week and spent three days in Ohio to get away from the roommates and their lovers.
Now, I’m gearing up to do this again. I refuse to live somewhere that I don’t feel happy. Two different rants but all with the same issue.
I’m thinking Virginia or somewhere in Maryland, where I’m from. I currently live in PA.
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2020.08.20 19:18 normanparkman How Meetme website works?

How Meetme website works?
In the event that you're not scanning for a standard dating experience yet simultaneously are accessible to meeting new people for different conditions, MeetMe may have what you have been looking for. MeetMe began its move from incredibly humble beginnings. In 2005, a 15-and 16-year-old pair of kinfolk, Catherine and David Cook, got the arrangement to trade the traditional paper yearbook for a 21st-century mechanized variation meetme website login.

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myYearbook was imagined, and would continue to enlist in excess of 100 laborers, raise $17 million in financing, present a defense for in excess of 20 million people and 1.2 multi month to month online visits, and procure $20 million in pay. Not extremely shabby for a site built up by high schoolers.
With a restored revolve around helping customers make new friends, instead of remaining in contact with mates from a prior time, MeetMe found more achievement than some other time in late memory. In 2017 they encountered a critical rebrand and moved live video moves which has become their most standard incorporate ever (and even helpers the notable MeetMe people acquire some money by social event Diamonds). MeetMe is a social revelation organization that is centered around making meeting a wide scope of people fun. Joining is basic, balancing a profile is a catalyst system, and joint effort with various customers is locks in.
Despite the fact that using more standard dating goals can every so often feel like a task, using MeetMe feels like an engaging distraction. Additionally, best of all, most by far of the features are free. To join, new people can sign in with their Facebook records or register with their email addresses. Simply crucial information is required, by then new customers are given the choice to incorporate a profile photo and follow various customers near their region. Resulting to joining, people can add more organized information to their profiles. Further customization is available through arrangements (called subjects) that can be used just if you climb to a MeetMe+ enrollment.
At long last, you're 'About Me' fragment is an open door for you to form a couple of sentences about your experience similarly as looking at your character and character credits for visitors to consider. The individual information that you decide to uncover to MeetMe can be as separated or as insufficient you may need meet dating site. On the off chance that you're genuinely stressed over your insurance, it would be best for you to keep certain things covered up.
In any case, on the off chance that you're willing to make a few information open, it will help you with increasing more visitors and even get more messages. You'll have the choice to look at your 'top picks, for instance, the movies, music, books, interests, refers to, etc that you like the most and you need various people to consider.
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2020.08.19 04:11 Powerfreak96 My mother’s boyfriend is a pedophile.

That’s pretty much it. My mom and dad got a divorce four years ago, and my mom hooked up with a guy she met on meetme. Last July he was arrested for going to a minors house to have sex. His mommy bailed him out of jail and he’s since been living off my mom. She just caught him cheating today, talking to a girl online about how much he wanted to cum in inside her. My mother has decided to hear him out again and continue their relationship. At this point I’m not sure what else to say. I think she’s emotionally dependent on him and he’s a manipulator and I don’t know what to do.
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2020.08.02 16:34 makecake99 MeetMe app review from the AppStore. MUST READ

MeetMe app review from the AppStore We are bringing you "some" of the most critical review from the AppStore. Many people mentioned that the MeetMe app is Fake, SCAM, and SUPPORT are not helpful in any way. with many of the issues going on with the app, we decided to share the reviews so that you all know what to expect and be careful when using the MeetMe app for dating.
Credits are fake I bought meetme credits and found out that they are fake and worthless. Never ever buy credits, no one was warning me before buying them, and now I am warning you. It is FAKE FAKE FAKE.
It is a SCAM be careful I was almost scammed out of about $2,000 because a scammer (or group of scammers) is very good at what they do. The pretended to be someone attractive, sent me explicit photos, and called me the next day on my personal cellphone claiming to be a police officer saying I was going to be arrested unless I pay what the parents want for therapy fees. The scam was more detailed than this but I don’t feel like typing it all up. If you download this app, BE CAREFUL. Ask people to prove who they are. If they give you a problem about that, obviously they aren’t real. Most of them a women’s profiles attacking men’s profiles. So, there you have it. MeetMe needs a serious security update.
DONT BUY THE SUBSCRIPTION DONT BUY THE SUBSCRIPTION, you won’t be able to cancel!! The caption literally says you won’t be able to cancel your subscription during the sub period so that means you’ll never be able to cancel because you won’t be able to get ahold of meetme and you will have to contact Apple and your bank! Don’t just give 1 stars, say why you hate this app. Maybe it’ll give them some sense to shut it down or make it better!!!
WATCH OUT!!! I had met someone on this app and we had been talking for a while and they asked to Skype and I agreed. So while we’re Skyping she wasn’t talking but rather typing things to me and suggested we both get naked for each other on camera. So I foolishly agreed, well right after that everything changed. They proceeded to tell me they they knew all of my information and that they recorded the whole Skype video call and they proceeded to show me they had created a fake Facebook account based on mine and basically was black mailing me and extorting me for money because they told me they were planning on sending it to all my friends and family if I didn’t send them $500 over PayPal. I refused and deleted and blocked them everywhere and even had to change my password for everything! Also even though they did send the video to all of my friends knew it wasn’t me and the reported the fake page to Facebook, which thankfully was taken down. I will never use this app again because obviously the creators don’t maintain it and allow anyone on here!
it’s just trash you can’t even view their whole photo album without paying the app to do so even if the account isn’t private. The only ones who bother messaging you will ask you to kik them so they can have a bot link you their nasty sex cams so you can give them money, it’s just trash.
They deleted my ACCOUNT This app is very much a new age social media. The live feature is what I utilized mostly while Being on here. I spent a large majority of my time on live in hope of reaching to the top. That is up until I had around 78k in diamonds and they logged me out and when I tried creating new passwords as mentioned it did not allow me to renter in to my account. This is the 4th time happening to me on this site, as soon as they see you becoming popular they delete you off in efforts of you not reaching the 80k which is when there suppose to give you a cash prize. As cool as it was to be on live they are very much liars , cheaters and thieves!!😡 , there countless amounts of emails I sent them and still yet no reply. Not only was my time wasted but I lost a lot of friends from around the world that I can no longer speak too. I have also spoke to top livers who said there is no way to fix the problem because the meetme team doesn’t answer anyone regarding this issue in which MANY people end of having.I would not recommend this app at all! Unless they reach out to me regarding this issue.
fake bot accounts there’s all the fake bot accounts, which I got to hand it too them, are pretty convincing. It just gets annoying after a while when you have multiple bots sending you the same messages ( “Hi!”). The other thing that drives me crazy about this app is the ads. Oh my god, I can’t even finish typing a sentence before an ad automatically pops up and interrupts. Not just once though, sometimes it’s multiple pop ups while I’m still trying to type. Also the app is called “Meet Me” and I can honestly say over these past 2 years I’ve maybe met 2 people in person. This is ridiculous and the people who are running this should go back to the drawing board and figure this out. To any new or anybody thinking about downloading, I highly recommend thinking twice before downloading.
SCAM!! This innocent app has now become a scam. Not just an ordinary scam but a scary and uncomfortable scam that could make you feel uneasy and uncomfortable as you go on through life as it will keep you thinking in the back of your mind if you’re safe to walk outside without being watched. This app is also a way to easily become a victim of blackmail too. So with that being said, this app is not worth your time and stay as far away from it as you can.
THEY WANT YOUR MONEY I bought credits on this app, thinking i would actually get some followers, fans, or anything from spending my real dollars on an app.
Not only did i not get any messages / interest during the time i was ‘boosted’ (what the app references to) but MeetMe took it upon themselves to remove ALL my photos on my profile, and as a consequence for my pictures apparently ‘not following guidelines’ resulted in them taking away all the credits i had YET to use also.
So not only did i not get anything from the app, my photos were removed, and my credits stolen without any word from Support , or an email in regards to what happened. Just logged on, and everything was gone. Talk about walking into your house and it being empty..
In turn, i sent 2 emails to MeetMe customer service explaining my frustrations and asking for me $15 to be refunded as there was no service provided with money i spent, and now going on the 3rd week, still no word from their support team. I already contacted
If you’ve been scammed by this app :
Contact Apple about the issue ; I got my funds back in 72 hours of contacting them. REAL service. Contact your bank to make sure they know to NEVER allow/authorize this scamming app to take funds from you again.
CREEPY there are too many creeps on here. There’s no button to report sexual harassment which is bothersome. Personally, I don’t like opening my message threads and finding a message asking for sexual acts with a dollar sign after it. this and made to feel uncomfortable. Seriously.
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2020.08.02 16:25 makecake99 if you are looked out from meetme, here what you do

we always see people say meet me locked me out, I am banned from meet me, meet me locked my account and other things of this sort. meetme app uses algorithm to identify bad behavior by users. and the system block your account if it is think that you violated the rules.
meet me locked me out what should I do?
this questions was asked by one of our readers, and actually it is something we get so often. if your account is blocked or get locked out first thing you should do is contact meetme support by email. they do not have a phone number for customer services or contact form.
try to contact them using the support email, and you should know that in most cases they will ignore you just like other users told us.
the best thing to do in this case, is to write a negative 1 star review in the AppStore or google store. in doing this they would usually address your issue and probably ask you to edit the review and give them 5 stars as well.
go ahead and write your review and see how it goes, you will get a response and probably the issue taken care of right away.
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2020.07.29 04:42 redpilljedi66 Underage girl scam? tried to kill my self

So my brother has already told my story on here but I figure I would tell it myself so I'm a veteran done two tours in Iraq and have really bad PTSD and this definitely didn't help it definitely pushed me over the edge and I tried to take my own life I still have really bad anxiety from it and panic attacks every once in awhile I'm pretty sure it was a scam happened to me almost a year ago
So this is what happened I was on the dating app MeetMe when I messaged a girl that lived about 30 to 40 minutes away as soon as I messaged her she asked if I wanted to text I said yes she gave me a local number I asked for a picture because her profile looks a little shade and I wanted to make sure it was the same girl so she sent me a picture of herself in her underwear I went back to her profile to see if it was her the profile was either blocked or deleted then I asked her if she had Snapchat she said no and then she told me that she was really 17 going to be here 18 in about a month I wanted to cut the conversation off but she tells me that it's okay because 17 and is legal in our state so I Google it and 17 is legal in my state so not thinking with the wrong head and thinking I'm not doing anything wrong I continue talking to her and then she starts to send me more revealing pictures and then ask for me to send one and then the next day or the day after I can't really remember I get an angry text from her father saying that he is going to take me to jail for child porn and sexting with a minor the text was super long I didn't even read the whole thing because I started having a hard time breathing and started to have a panic attack so I turn off my phone and the next day change my number then I go home and I was freaking out and I tried to take my own life i took a bunch of pills and had my military gun in my hand i passed out from the pills and woke up in the hospital
I'm a good person I just want to be a left alone makes me sick that I was tricked into breaking the law I'm pretty sure it was a scam cuz nothing has happened within a year but I still have panic attacks really bad anxiety and Suicidal Thoughts I am glad that I did not secede by trying to take my own life but the situation is still got me all fucked up even after a year I find it very hard to get through the day go to work workout and just be a normal human if anybody can give me any advice would be much appreciated
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2020.07.28 06:41 thesquidapus My boyfriend got custody of me as a teen and abused me for years.

Hi! First time poster but I want to tell my story to get it off my chest. I feel like I need to tell my story in its entirety to give it justice. This post is probably going to be long, so I'm sorry in advance. If it's any consolation it does have a happy ending that I hope inspires anyone who's found themselves feeling trapped with their abusers. *** This story involves suicide, sexual assault, substance abuse, physical, and psychological abuse***
I met my husband when I was 17 in my junior year of high school. My mom had left her husband, moved away, and left me in a small town with no family. I didn't even know where my dad lived. I couch surfed for some time while trying to get through high school. I found him on this app called Meetme. We talked for a while and went on our first date. He was 19, worked at Hot Topic, and came from a pretty well off family.
He eventually found out about my living situation and I guess his hero complex kicked in and he begged his parents to let me live with him until he could get his own place. His parents were nervous housing a "runaway delinquent" but caved. We got our first place within walking distance of my school. We payed rent and lived comfortably on our part time jobs.
The honeymoon phase ended fast. He didn't like any of my friends (especially the one that asked me to his prom because he didn't have a date). He started treating me differently when he found out how many partners I've had before him. At one point he told his sister he felt like I was someones used plaything. I'm not proud of admitting it, but I wound up looking through his phone. He liked some really vile porn. He also complained to one of his female friends that I didn't put out the first date and tried to hook up with her. I was 17 and at that point he was all I had. I couldn't get medical attention unless he was there because my mom signed it over to him. If I got in trouble at school, he was the one they were calling. My 19 year old boyfriend was more or less my guardian.
By the time I turned 18 things got worse. He started wearing my clothes and flirting with one of his male friends. I even noticed some of my birth control pills were missing. He would come back home really late, and would take hours to pick me up from work. When I found out about the cheating I packed up my things and searched desperately for one of my family members to come get me. No one could help me. The sight of my packed bags scared him and he said he would be better. Turns out he just got better at hiding it. When we got into arguments he would raise his fist and stop a couple of inches from my face. This was also around the time I stopped my birth control and went back to condoms. I found our condoms had holes poked into them.
When I turned 19 I dropped out. I couldn't count on him or anyone to support me while I tried to finish High School. I got a full time job at some factory. He turned 21 and became an alcoholic. I had suffered a really bad injury at work and didn't have a license. He would drop me off at the doctors then go to the casino and get too drunk to pick me up. This was before Ubers were in our small town. I was prescribed three very strong pain killers for my injury. At one point the pain, abuse, and gaslightingI was going through was so bad I took all of them with some alcohol, and nearly died on my friends couch. She told me she had to drag me to her bathroom and make me throw up. In the end I am forever thankful she was there to stop me from my irreversible decision.
Fast forward a few months and his parents moved to Houston. We went to visit them for a vacation. We had a disagreement and when night came around I wasn't interested in sex he let it go. For a few hours. I woke up to him forcing himself into me. He hurt my legs, he clamped his hand on my mouth. The thing that disturbed me the most was the whole time he was whispering in my ear "I'm sorry" over and over again. I didn't even leave then. I was in too deep.
Fast forward a few months. I was 20, almost 21, walking down the isle to marry the man that took my last few years of adolescence. The relationship never got better. He flip flopped between wanting to be a man, an woman. He got expensive lazer hair removal surgery, bought makeup, sent nudes to his coworkers, the guy friend he cheated on me with previously, and strangers he would flirt with on the internet. He eventually lost his job and we lost our apartment in Houston.
My saving grace was reconnecting with the father I hadn't seen for 18 years. He got more hostile with me once my dad was back in the future. He whined that I didn't need him anymore. He let us both move in to his home in Dallas. I eventually got sick of his cheating and abuse, so when he went to visit his parents in Houston, I told him not to come back. During the divorce proceedings I turned to alcohol and drugs to cope.
Lets move forward to present day. I'm 25, halfway to 26. I got the help I needed to stay sober. I got my GED, got a license, and have a car. We've been divorced since 2017. He got remarried a few months after it was finalized. He decided he didn't want to be a girl, and converted to islam for his wife. He divorced her over a year ago. That friend that asked me to his prom back in high school? We've been together since 2017, recently celebrated our three year anniversary, are engaged, and moving to Washington state at the end of september. I love him so much, and he loves me. I like to laugh at the fact that my current relationship lasted longer than his 2nd marriage.
Thanks for reading my story. If I can drag myself out of the worst period of my life and become a happy, functioning adult, I think anyone can too.
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2020.07.28 04:05 mccoyboy22 23 [M4F] North America/ its apparently my cake day, does that mean luck is on my side?

Alright this may be long ill do my best to organize this in some way.
So pictures here as you can see im tall (6'3") white and athletic build. Im still working on the beard, usually I sport a mustache and go tee, looking like the Devil from Rick and Morty.
My name is Madison. Its been a blessing and a curse. A blessing in the sense that ive never met another guy with my name, a curse as the people ive met with my name are all girls. Therefore growing up new people always questioned whether or not I was lying.
I had an odd life growing up but as many people would say "it was normal to me". Im an open book but I wont post it all here as its a long intricate story thats better told over the course of a conversation.
I dont post here often but I tend to have spurts of using dating apps (tinder, Meetme, okcupid, etc.) But they tend to suck ass. (Not that theres anything wrong with that).
Im also horrible when falling for someone and it eats me alive as I kick myself for wanting to constantly talk to the person I fall for. Im not necessarily clingy but I grew up a hopeless romantic watching too many movies and imagining my occurrences with women to be as such. Growing older i tend to hold that back and try to act engaged but not eager. At this point in my life, I hate reading people and enjoy bluntness. I hate thinking im being too much and acting as a self critic. But honestly, id imagine this is a feeling Im not alone in. Im sure many people watched romantic teen flick and want to relive it as well.
So a brief aside, last November I was engaged to a person a loved and had ups and downs with for 3 years. It ended up being mutual when we broke up around thanksgiving but its still a bummer. We're still friends and both respect each other. I will say that I'm lucky to date people who tend to somewhat have their head on their shoulders.
So me, let me put some brief goals. Ill divide this into definitely, likely, and dreams.
Definitely
note: Im afraid of two things. Spiders and getting a divorce. Ive seen it two many times, ive experienced it and I would never want to put someone through that (specifically kids). I could go on and on about my thoughts and my views on the dynamics of a relationship. They arent fucking easy all the time (at least in my experience. I would love to find "the one" and for us to always be on the same level). Theres compromise, its work and I get that. My number one piece of advice would be communication. It seems to be the lifeline. But im getting off topic.
Likely
Dreams
Next I'll do my best to describe my personality. My strength and flaws. Im not perfect (although I try my best)
So I have many hobbies. I tend to pick up anything I find remotely interesting. Theres too much awesome stuff to not at least give a go at. The main stays have been video games, board games and watching youtube videos and baking/cooking. Ill list some of the assorted that come and go.
note: I always tend to "swipe left" on girls with really long fake nails. I appreciate someone who uses their hands to craft, garden, etc. basically do things. And I dont see how someone could with such long nails. lol it could also be personal taste.
Also, although im a huge skeptic of "personality test" I wont deny that ENTP-A describes me very well. Im very much a debater. Ill argue just about anything and like to do my best to see things from many perspectives. Im a devils advocate and some may think i take strange stances sometimes (especially in texas) I also have many ideas but so many flood my head that I tend to not pursue many of them. I would love a girl who could push me to my full potential. (but ill get to that.) Im also very scientific/logic/rational oriented. Im atheist and am fascinated by the scientific world (its a shame more people arent) If you believe in ghosts, crystals, etc. I will dig into it. I cant help it, which leads me to strengths and weaknesses.
Strengths
Weaknesses
note: alright so my family was shite growing up, im not gonna suger coat it. I dont speak with my father and i have a good relationship with my mother, but some things feel off and i can describe that more if youre interested. My recent ex's family was also strange. i wont deny that i fealt uncomfortable around them and maybe it was just her dad. but that doesnt mean i havent met families i love. I really want that "close knit family" so much so that if i cant find it, ill make it. but again, kids. Im a very caring person with a big heart. but i tend to put a lot of trust in people and its a blow to my emotions when they dont take how much i care seriously. but i tend to always give multiple chances, its just how i got shaped as a kid (which is its own story)
So what am i looking for? Well a girl. someone i find attractive. someone who talks to me about whats on their mind whatever it may be. who's interested in strange but interesting facts (like rice cookers) and uses reason and logic. who can hold a deep and meaningful conversation on a variety of topics from science to history. who's open minded and willing to try new things. who isnt picky when it comes to food. who's willing to be active and lazy with me. whos ok with spontaneous trips, ideas, hobbies and is willing and eager to do them with me. who can be responsible and take charge when need be but also trust me to do the same. who has goals and some sort of roadmap whether it be super structured or not. whos ok with pushing me to improve and vice versa. and whos ok with being dorky sometimes.
i thought about skipping this but i might as well add it, ive already added so much why stop now. SEX! lol, im ok with waiting, but not till marriage. I tend to be very open minded in bed and enjoy pleasing my partner. i'd hope they were the same. Im not one for one night stands or hookups, i just tend to enjoy something emotional.
alright, if you made it this far you must be somewhat intrigued. i understand it was long but id rather give it a lot of effort once than half ass it multiple times. i also know that not everyone would find this appealing but thats fine, thats how we work. id rather people who are genuinely interested (although i enjoy chatting)
thanks for your time and please stop by my dms if you are curious
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2020.07.27 20:22 Bass_P Found Lars Sullivan on MeetMe live streams!

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2020.07.24 00:23 Tylenol-with-Codeine I’ve become a serial cheater..

I want to say up front that I am in therapy. However, a lot of what I am about to talk about I have not mentioned to my therapist out of shame. I plan on remedying that during my next session. And what follows will be really polarizing, and rightfully so. I just need to get this out into the world and don't have much of an outlet right now.
Over the past two years, I have developed into a serial cheater.
To preface this story, I have to mention that in high school and college I developed an addiction (dependency, whatever you want to call it) to porn. As I got older, I started to watch it whenever I masturbated more and more, and being a standard growing boy/young man I was doing so pretty frequently, at least once a day. My freshman year of college apps like Tinder and Hot or Not were released, and a group of friends introduced me to this app called MeetMe. College was a hard time for me. I struggled in my sport and with an eating disorder that ravaged my sense of self-worth and esteem. On top of that, my social anxiety kept me from approaching girls I was interested in. So, maybe three times a year or so, I would re-download MeetMe and talk to girls when I was in a really dark and/or lonely place. Sometimes I would ask for nudes. I had two really traumatic experiences with sex during those years, and so I generally kept all chats gone sexual to the app only. Pretty much every chat ended in me feeling kind of gross, and I'd delete the app.
Anyways.
I've had two girlfriends. One in high school and one at the end of college. The former lasted for a little under a year and a half. The latter lasted for three years and was very intense. In the first relationship, I never thought about cheating. I was raised in what I consider to be a good family, a good community, and a good group of friends. I always looked down on those who cheated and never saw a future in which I would ever do such a thing to someone I loved and cared about so much.
I felt the same way in my second relationship. Cheating never crossed my mind, even when things were rough. I feel as though it never really occurred to me until it actually happened. However, a few months into dating my friends and I went on a "porn cleanse" together. My then-girlfriend and I had a discussion and agreed that we wanted to be in a porn free relationship, as we were both inherently insecure. I made it 44 days. When I relapsed, I didn't tell my girlfriend. In hindsight, I was afraid of making her angry and, even worse, triggering her insecurity to be even worse. Every single guy she had ever been with had cheated on her and mistreated her. The last thing I wanted to do was add to that in any way, and I knew that telling her I was struggling with quitting porn would make her question my opinion of her, so I chose to struggle alone and eventually reached a point where if I revealed this secret to her, she would have been even more upset for me having not told her for so long.
But, about a year and two/three months into our relationship, I was at work and made the worst decision ever to redownload the app I met her on which was, ironically, MeetMe. At the time, I was working as a projectionist. The work was very isolated and took place almost entirely in a very dark corridor above the cinema. Combine that with my then-girlfriend and I being in a rough spot... I believe that because I was watching porn still it had sort of made a connection in my mind of "nothing physical is actually happening between me and anyone else" and so... I talked casually with a few people and eventually, a girl said she wasn't there to "mess around" and essentially asked me if I wanted to fuck or not. I said no... but I asked for a nude and basically said "if I like what I see, maybe."
Long story short, I received a nude and she requested one from me. I sent one and she responded by sending her address and telling me to be there around 5 and I freaked out, realizing the weight of what I had just done and what exactly it was, and I deleted the app. Two months later, I did it again. I talked to a few people but ended up asking for nudes from another person. The month after that I did it again and received nudes from another person.
Two months later, the guilt was ruining me and I confessed, but only to the first incident. We were broken up for about two months later that year (2019) and when we started talking again I told her that it had happened more than once and told her how many times, but I think she forgot because she found a video I had filmed on my computer while we were broken up of me admitting to everything in an effort to clear my conscious.
In late March this year, she had a severe mental breakdown. She suffers from BPD and has had a very tumultuous life, and attempted suicide multiple times as a teenager. When she broke up with me last year she went off the deep end and started acting very impulsively and doing a lot of crazy things that she really regrets doing. I think that getting back together helped her a little bit, but added other pressure like anxiety and paranoia that I would cheat again or that I was. The first two months of this year were filled with her being fine one moment and then getting extremely angry and rushing out of the apartment. She self-harmed a few times, and she would always talk about killing herself and giving up on life when those moments happened. It all culminated to this day in March when I had to break down my bathroom door to get to her so she wouldn't hurt herself. I ended up restraining her on the ground as she screamed at me to let her go so she could go kill herself.
She started crisis therapy the next week, and things have really been improving a lot since then... except one night about two weeks later, I got drunk and went on Omegle really late at night. I spent a while just talking to people about the quarantine and how their lives and cities were changing. As I was getting off to go to bed, this girl and her friend added me on Snapchat and I asked for nudes. They refused, so I deleted them and went to bed. When I woke up, I got back on Omegle to use the text only feature and I ended up sexting someone I'm pretty sure was probably just a guy pretending to be a girl.
Three weeks ago, my now ex-girlfriend broke up with me. Yesterday, I dropped off the last of her things at her house and included a letter that revealed what I did on Omegle. She had told me that there was no chance of us getting back together again, but the chance of her changing her mind was gnawing at me. We were off and on for a lot of last year, but we kept on being drawn back together. If that were to happen, I didn't want her to come back ignorant of my cheating relapse this past April. She was furious and very hurt, obviously, although she did say she no longer felt any guilt for the hurt I have been going through due to the break up, which I expected.
I've been such a massive fuck up. My actions don't show this, I know, but I cared about this girl so much. She was my best friend and my favorite person. I wanted to experience everything with her and yet I did this... This stupid fucking app gave me the whole world in meeting her... and I let it take everything away. I don't deserve her, and I don't deserve her forgiveness. I feel like I not only betrayed her, but also her daughter whom I love too, as well as my parents, my siblings, my friends, my own self and identity... over and over and over again... I'm such a massive disappointment to all these people who helped shape me into the person who understood that cheating is wrong, looked down on it and those who did it, and never thought I was capable of it.
I hate myself, and I'm going to take this guilt and regret to my grave. I hate that for the rest of my life I have to carry this mark with me and know that I hurt someone I loved and cared for so much in this way so many times... I hate myself for not being able to provide this woman with what she so desperately wanted, and what I so desperately wanted to give: love unmarred by cheating, something she had never experienced before... I failed, and I fucking hate myself for it.
I don't know what I'm hoping to get out of this beyond just getting it off my chest and out into the world. I feel like some part of me wants to be cussed out by more than just my ex, but I don't know if that's against the rules of this sub.
With this new understanding of how porn played a role in all this, I am giving it up again and using this new understanding as motivation to keep going, and am feeling fairly good about it. I've decided to keep MeetMe off-limits as well, even though I'm single. I don't really want to be with anyone else, and I don't feel I deserve to be, but I'm hoping that training my brain not to rely on these things while I'm single will help me if I'm ever in a relationship again to ensure I'm stronger and won't cheat ever again.
I really never expected this from myself, and I'm beyond disappointed. I'm still reeling from this loss and feel as though I will be for a long long time. I guess if anyone out there made it this far, please don't make the same mistakes I have. If you have someone in your life that you love and who loves you back, don't ever put yourself in a position where you might cheat on your partner. The guilt, pain, and shame it puts on yourself is enough to make you want to kill yourself, and the pain, anxiety, and insecurity it puts on your loved one is even worse to experience.
Please don't fuck up like I have...
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2020.07.07 01:31 mccoyboy22 23[M4F] Texas/Alberta/U.S. Revision number one

Alright this may be long ill do my best to organize this in some way.
So pictures here as you can see im tall (6'3") white and athletic build. Im still working on the beard, usually I sport a mustache and go tee, looking like the Devil from Rick and Morty.
My name is Madison. Its been a blessing and a curse. A blessing in the sense that ive never met another guy with my name, a curse as the people ive met with my name are all girls. Therefore growing up new people always questioned whether or not I was lying.
I had an odd life growing up but as many people would say "it was normal to me". Im an open book but I wont post it all here as its a long intricate story thats better told over the course of a conversation.
I dont post here often but I tend to have spurts of using dating apps (tinder, Meetme, okcupid, etc.) But they tend to suck ass. (Not that theres anything wrong with that).
Im also horrible when falling for someone and it eats me alive as I kick myself for wanting to constantly talk to the person I fall for. Im not necessarily clingy but I grew up a hopeless romantic watching too many movies and imagining my occurrences with women to be as such. Growing older i tend to hold that back and try to act engaged but not eager. At this point in my life, I hate reading people and enjoy bluntness. I hate thinking im being too much and acting as a self critic. But honestly, id imagine this is a feeling Im not alone in. Im sure many people watched romantic teen flick and want to relive it as well.
So a brief aside, last November I was engaged to a person a loved and had ups and downs with for 3 years. It ended up being mutual when we broke up around thanksgiving but its still a bummer. We're still friends and both respect each other. I will say that I'm lucky to date people who tend to somewhat have their head on their shoulders.
So me, let me put some brief goals. Ill divide this into definitely, likely, and dreams.
Definitely
note: Im afraid of two things. Spiders and getting a divorce. Ive seen it two many times, ive experienced it and I would never want to put someone through that (specifically kids). I could go on and on about my thoughts and my views on the dynamics of a relationship. They arent fucking easy all the time (at least in my experience. I would love to find "the one" and for us to always be on the same level). Theres compromise, its work and I get that. My number one piece of advice would be communication. It seems to be the lifeline. But im getting off topic.
Likely
Dreams
Next I'll do my best to describe my personality. My strength and flaws. Im not perfect (although I try my best)
So I have many hobbies. I tend to pick up anything I find remotely interesting. Theres too much awesome stuff to not at least give a go at. The main stays have been video games, board games and watching youtube videos and baking/cooking. Ill list some of the assorted that come and go.
note: I always tend to "swipe left" on girls with really long fake nails. I appreciate someone who uses their hands to craft, garden, etc. basically do things. And I dont see how someone could with such long nails. lol it could also be personal taste.
Also, although im a huge skeptic of "personality test" I wont deny that ENTP-A describes me very well. Im very much a debater. Ill argue just about anything and like to do my best to see things from many perspectives. Im a devils advocate and some may think i take strange stances sometimes (especially in texas) I also have many ideas but so many flood my head that I tend to not pursue many of them. I would love a girl who could push me to my full potential. (but ill get to that.) Im also very scientific/logic/rational oriented. Im atheist and am fascinated by the scientific world (its a shame more people arent) If you believe in ghosts, crystals, etc. I will dig into it. I cant help it, which leads me to strengths and weaknesses.
Strengths
Weaknesses
note: alright so my family was shite growing up, im not gonna suger coat it. I dont speak with my father and i have a good relationship with my mother, but some things feel off and i can describe that more if youre interested. My recent ex's family was also strange. i wont deny that i fealt uncomfortable around them and maybe it was just her dad. but that doesnt mean i havent met families i love. I really want that "close knit family" so much so that if i cant find it, ill make it. but again, kids. Im a very caring person with a big heart. but i tend to put a lot of trust in people and its a blow to my emotions when they dont take how much i care seriously. but i tend to always give multiple chances, its just how i got shaped as a kid (which is its own story)
So what am i looking for? Well a girl. someone i find attractive. someone who talks to me about whats on their mind whatever it may be. who's interested in strange but interesting facts (like rice cookers) and uses reason and logic. who can hold a deep and meaningful conversation on a variety of topics from science to history. who's open minded and willing to try new things. who isnt picky when it comes to food. who's willing to be active and lazy with me. whos ok with spontaneous trips, ideas, hobbies and is willing and eager to do them with me. who can be responsible and take charge when need be but also trust me to do the same. who has goals and some sort of roadmap whether it be super structured or not. whos ok with pushing me to improve and vice versa. and whos ok with being dorky sometimes.
i thought about skipping this but i might as well add it, ive already added so much why stop now. SEX! lol, im ok with waiting, but not till marriage. I tend to be very open minded in bed and enjoy pleasing my partner. i'd hope they were the same. Im not one for one night stands or hookups, i just tend to enjoy something emotional.
alright, if you made it this far you must be somewhat intrigued. i understand it was long but id rather give it a lot of effort once than half ass it multiple times. i also know that not everyone would find this appealing but thats fine, thats how we work. id rather people who are genuinely interested (although i enjoy chatting)
thanks for your time and please stop by my dms if you are curious
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2020.07.06 19:34 gingerdawn0116 I’m bout to go live on MeetMe so go find me on there guys!

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2020.07.06 12:00 therealbeanjr I Dated a Scammer for 5/6 Months - from August 2019 till January 2020 - [LONG]

So I don't have any other place to post this since the person in question has NO idea about my Reddit account, but one way or the other, this needs to come out because I have a right to tell my story and to spread awareness of people like this who live in this world. If you THINK you know this person, think again! After you finish reading this, you'll never look at them the same way again.
Let me set the stage first. It all started in 2019. I got out of a bad long-distance relationship with a trans female who wound up ghosting me for 12 months after that. Quick side-note, we wound up talking and worked things out to get closure (she dumped me). ANYWAYS, I was feeling so alone and so empty after not only being ghosted by that person but also from being stood up by another person where they made me waste a whole night waiting on them.
After getting fed up over the situation, I did as any sane person would do and go to the MeetMe app, as well as sift through Facebook Dating. It was then that I finally found someone, someone I went to high school with, in 10th grade, someone who went by the name of Krista. Krista was a girl who was interested in me, but at the time, I wasn't interested in her. It got to a point where she left my school because I kept turning her down. Up until last year, I felt bad for doing that to her, and you'll see why this is no longer the case - me not feeling bad about it.
This started in August. We started talking and wound up exchanging phone numbers to text because let's face it, who on earth would want to invest time into messaging for days on a dating app? It all started pretty normal, but not for long, as things start to get much, much weirder. It started when we were trying to make plans to meet. As I've already outlined above, I went to school with this person for a brief time, so I know they're real - or at least that's what I was hoping. The verdict is still out on that one, and likely will forever be the case. But anyways, making plans made me realize this was no simple task, and here's why. Spoiler alert, we never ended up meeting. Do you think that's the end of this twisted story? Oh man, there's SO much more we have to cover.
So, back to making the plans. Since she lived no more than 20 minutes away, I didn't see it as being much of an issue, but here's where the problems STARTED. Just so this isn't repetitive for you, let me summarize this in a nutshell. We would make plans (oftentimes the plans being she'd come to meet me at my house and we'd go from there), then for some reason, she would always take a long time to text me back. When she FINALLY did text me back after leaving me waiting for what felt like hours, she would claim that she had to go to the hospital for some arbitrary reason, whether it be: seizures, car accidents, or just about every excuse under the sun. In the end, my hopes would be let up, hours would be wasted, and we would never meet. Oh, you think I'm done yet? NOPE! I've got SEVERAL more paragraphs to go. This is only the tip of the iceberg!
Now, I know I haven't mentioned this yet, but there will be at least two names mentioned here - Krista, and Kira. Make a mental note of these, because they'll be important later on. One day, I would get a text from Krista, saying that she is low on iTunes credit to pay for her Music subscription, or to - and let's be honest here, waste money on games with micro-transactions. I decided to be a nice person and send her a $25 iTunes card via email. You would think that that would be the end of it right? RIGHT??? Wrong! This turned into a DAILY thing, where I would wake up to her asking for MORE and used the SAME excuses as before. I of course sent it, thinking her requests were genuine. This went on for quite some time until she claimed that her Apple ID was "hacked by her friend". This "friend" of hers, also went to my high school at the time, so I knew them quite well too, to a degree. Anyways, Krista claimed that she got her account back, so being a person that knows a LOT about security, I told her to enable 2FA ASAP so that it doesn't happen again.
That's enough about Krista for a bit. Let's move on to this "Kira" person for a brief moment, as this whole money thing also extends to them. I would get a text one evening from this Kira person, asking me if I could send them a....you guessed it! - an iTunes card to "surprise Krista" with, which was a $25 card. Mind you, I never gave this person my number, so this was only the beginning of the sketchiness of the situation. I initially told this person that I was extremely high on my credit card because of all the expenses (50% of them were from Krista constantly asking) but that I would be able to send it to them in a few days. It looked like they had agreed to the deal since they said they were okay with it. I woke up the next day to a text from the same person, asking me if I could send the card "now". But wait, didn't they agree to wait? I pointed this out to the person, and also pointed out how things just didn't line up very well with everything else.
Anyways, to get this person off my case, I sent them a $25 card, despite my fragile situation. Mind you, this whole time, Krista was "sleeping" and was "feeling sick" - this all took place the night after one of the failed meetups. This then escalated to Kira (who I'm convinced was Krista the whole time) asking for ACTUAL FUCKING MONEY via bank transfer. This meant that she was required to provide me with an email address to send the transfer - no banking info/routing info was needed. It started at $80 for "food" and even "promised" to bring Krista to me if I sent more - $100. To poke holes in this logic, I asked what would happen if I didn't meet the $100 threshold since it was implied that no $100=no Krista. The response I got implied that even if I did $80, she would "still bring Krista to me" so that honestly made no fucking sense, as you would have to give an incentive and double down on that to make such an incentive effective.
Anyways, I wound up sending the $80 - because I felt like there was no real incentive to go higher than that. Fast-forward into later in the evening, some texts were exchanged between me and this "Kira" person, where Kira was threatening me not to tell Krista anything about what was being said, and that Kira would be "very unhappy" if she found out I was telling Krista any of this. Krista was also texting me at the time and was "in the hospital" again because of a "fever". Her "cousin" Kira was also messaging me, asking for more money. I'm pretty sure I ducked out on this one since I gave statistical information, such as how much was on my credit card, how much money I had in my bank account, etc. She wasn't hearing ANY of it. She also called Krista mean names, like a "big fat cow" and talked about her in a way that no real cousin would ever talk about their family.
It was at this point when I had it with this Kira person and stopped responding to them for a while. I took the time to do a carrier lookup of their phone number, and sure enough, the results came back as a VoIP company that provides services to texting app companies (think of it like TextNow, TextPlus, etc). This person was using a FUCKING texting app to text me - which is why I said earlier that am convinced that this was Krista the whole time. I tried to confront Krista about this, and all Krista was able to tell me, was that her "cousin" was using that as her "main number" because they "couldn't pay for their phone bill". Seriously, what normal person uses a texting app for their main number? - not to mention the fact that texting app numbers are generally not for life, and that they get recycled and reused by other people.
Oh, but I didn't stop there, as I had done the same for Krista's number, but luckily it came back as an actual Canadian carrier, so there was some genuineness with this number, and that I had reason to believe that Krista was the one using a texting app to pose as another person.
The next day, Krista/Kira (from Krista's number) tried asking for more money, but I wound up standing my ground for once and saying no. It was at this point, that "Kira" said she was going home (Kira claimed to have been from the UK) so I would "never hear from her again" and I was like "good!" because I was done dealing with that bitch.
About a week passes by and I was told that Kira was put away for "trying to kill herself". And what do ya know, a few days later, Krista would then tell me that Kira "killed herself". But WAIT a fucking minute! How could Kira kill herself if she's been put away in a mental institution? Her "uncle" even confirmed it (this was coming from Krista's number too btw) This immediately confirmed that Krista was the one behind all of this.
A month passes by this time and it's October. There were more requests for money, each of which I denied. It got to a point where I had to blacklist Krista from asking for money for the next 3 months and made her verbally agree through texting, that she wouldn't attempt to break the ban, nor would she attempt to scam or extort me for money. This was going well for about 2 months until 25 days were remaining on her ban. Keep in mind, the whole time she would promise to pay me back after each transaction, but guess what? She NEVER did.
Fast-forward to about January (Christmas was a bust btw in case you haven't guessed) and I would wake up to see a text from her asking for - and you're gonna shit your pants, $200 for "surgery" at a hospital for a "brain tumour removal". I gave a friendly reminder that she was breaching the agreement by asking for, not only a LOT of money (more than her weekly and monthly limits combined) but also asking for it DURING her ban. I, of course, stood my ground and referred her to the different sections of the agreement (I'll probably put it at the end of this for those interested) that outlined how much she was allowed to ask for during any specific time, and that during her ban, she was NOT allowed to ask for more. She kept pushing and pushing, and. and I kept standing my ground.
When Krista didn't get what she wanted, she brought her "friend" into the situation (it was implied that Krista gave this friend her phone - but we all know what's going on) and tried to bribe me (also a breach of agreement) by saying they'll "pay me back" and "bring me my game". Side-note: Krista allegedly bought me LM3 for the Switch, so I was waiting since OCTOBER for the game. This friend, or should I sai Krista, also sent me sexually suggestive content to try to seduce me and give in to their "friend's" demands. I kept holding my ground and didn't even give two shits about what I was seeing in said content, because I was beyond pissed that this was happening again.
Anyways, to make a long story short, this "friend" of hers was trying to pay for surgery with CASH, and assumed that I would help, even though I kept saying that I wasn't willing to help for obvious reasons. Plus it wasn't like I had $200 just laying around. This person attempted to use guilt tactics on me, but they weren't working because I built up a defence against them after having been subjected to them from others. It was claimed that they were "taking the tumour out" but that they also couldn't proceed without payment. What????!!??? Two contradicting statements right here!
Anyways, after a day or two, I decided that enough was enough and that I was FUCKING DONE with this person. I sent them a text which read (and I still have it):
"Okay look, I’m not going to beat around the bush or sugarcoat things. Instead, I’m going to tell you how it honestly is from my point of view.
Over the past 6 months, I’ve been nothing but patient, and understanding to the best of my abilities. I’ve even tolerated the most unusual things, all because of the glimmer of hope you kept giving me about our meeting. Every time you cancelled or ghosted me, it was a stab in my heart and needless to say, it was torture for me. My mom hated to see me go through the same thing every single time.
I also feel like you took advantage of me. Asking me for iTunes cards daily, telling me they were all for emergencies, and then 4 months later, telling me it was all fake, made me not able to trust you as closely as I did. It was at that point that I wrote up an agreement, that you verbally agreed to.
Speaking of the agreement, I felt like ever since I put it into place, and restricted you for 90 days, that your communications with me had slowed. Starting, we used to talk for hours. Later on, it got to the point where I would only be so lucky to talk to you for only a 10th of that time, forcing me to wait all day (to be fair, I sleep for the majority of it) and all evening.
It feels as if the only reason you used to text me so much, is because I used to give you money of some kind, and that kept you coming back for more. As soon as I put restrictions on you, and the fact that you’ve been texting me less and less, is only further evidence to support my original theory, especially after you violated and attempted to work around the rules I had set out for you to follow.
I’ve talked to many friends about the scams I’ve been victimized in during the last 6 months and even described some of the events that have happened. A lot of people are feeling a little weary, stating that this isn’t how a normal and healthy relationship works. I’ve had my suspicions, such as me betting on you cancelling on me, even weeks before our scheduled dates, and I’m right 100% out of all those times.
What I want to tell you, is that I can’t keep going like this with you, and as unfortunate as this is for the both of us, I’m going to have to terminate this relationship. I haven’t been happy for over 4 months, and I’ve always made it a point not to hide that from you. I’ve noticed that the frequency of our fights have increased, and I feel like if we keep going, it’s only going to get worse over time.
As much as I love you - and believe me, I still do, this is just too painful for me to deal with. I know I made a promise, but realistically, I can’t keep it, not when this is going to destroy me on the inside.
All I’m going to say is if you want me back, come find me IN PERSON. I expect to still get what’s rightfully mine: the game you got me, the money you owe me, and whatever else you want. I’m sorry, but I honestly feel like it’s for the best. All these health problems and cancellations are taking an emotional toll on me, and I just don’t know if I can take it any longer. I’ve held out for as long as I could, but I’m afraid that, that time is nearly up."
She then came back and said that it was "all my fault" and that she "did nothing wrong". She then promptly told me to "delete her off of anything" - uh yeah sure, wipe away the evidence why don't ya! She also made an excuse that she was "scared" that she'd get hurt again while AGREEING to have a relationship with me. Like, bruh, if you weren't ready, you should've told me sooner, and not let this drag out for 5+ months.
I then broke off communication with her, until a month later when she messaged me on IG, asking for more money for "food" and that she "got her surgery" that she was too poor to pay for at the time.
I, of course, kept holding my ground and not giving in. At this point, things were pretty much over as far as trying to talk sense into this person. It was then that I made a Facebook page to expose her by uploading all kinds of screenshots and videos about her. She caught wind of this, and threatened to charge me for "harassment". She claimed to have talked to the police AFTER I did what she asked of me - because she threatened to do it if I didn't. So I feel like this is the only safe place I can post this and hopefully get some recognition for my trouble. I'll be attaching the agreement, for proof of everything talked about here. I'm sorry this was such a long read, and honestly, it took over 2 hours to write this, but I feel like this NEEDS to be out there so that others don't fall victim to these types of scams. Now for the agreement:
"Agreement Between [my real name] & [scammer's name]
Please READ the following Agreement carefully. The term “AGREEMENT” will reference this entire document as a whole. The term “BOYFRIEND” will make reference to [me]. The term GIRLFRIEND will make reference to [scammer].
TERMS & CONDITIONS
These terms and conditions will be effective upon being agreed to. Below are the Terms & Conditions of this Agreement. Any breach of these Terms & Conditions may result in Termination. (please see TERMINATION section)
SECTION 1 - Sending Money to Boyfriend
Sending money to Boyfriend is optional and is often not required, unless otherwise stated outside of the Agreement. For example, if an outstanding amount is owed to Boyfriend, then Girlfriend must pay Boyfriend back to avoid a breach of this Agreement. Boyfriend will not ask, beg, bribe, guilt, manipulate or extort money from Girlfriend for any reason. It is Boyfriend’s responsibility to manage their finances.
SECTION 2 - Receiving Money From Boyfriend
Girlfriend may request under the following conditions. These conditions also extend to any friends, family or acquaintances.a) Transactions are NOT guaranteed 100%b) Girlfriend must not ask constantly, beg, bribe, guilt, manipulate or extort money from Boyfriend for any reason. It is Girlfriend’s responsibility to manage their financesc) Girlfriend may request money within the following amounts below:- No more than $50 per week- No more than $100 per monthIt is advised that Girlfriend stays within these limits to avoid breach of this Agreement.
SECTION 3 - Fraud Prevention
This Section of the Agreement is effective as of October 31, 2019. Either party will not participate in scams or other fraudulent activities, or involve other parties outside of this Agreement. For example, Boyfriend will not scam or extort money from Girlfriend, nor will Boyfriend be permitted to use an outside party. Breach of this section will result in immediate Termination of this Agreement.
SECTION 4 - Termination
This Agreement is subject to Termination at any time from either Boyfriend or Girlfriend if breach of any part of this Agreement or Contract occurs. Termination of this Agreement may include restrictions on asking either party for money for a set length of time. The length of time is determined at the sole discretion of the party member initiating the Termination. For example, Boyfriend initiates Termination. It is up to Boyfriend what restrictions to apply, and for how long. Optionally, either party may impose an “Appeal Date” (see Appeals section for more info) in which the party being restricted can appeal on that date. Otherwise, the restricted party must wait out the number of days until said restriction is lifted.
SECTION 5 - Appeals
Appeals may be offered at the discretion of the party member in this Agreement who initiates the Termination. The restricted will not appeal before the Appeal Date. Appeals before the Appeal Date will be automatically denied.
SECTION 6 - Changes to Agreement
Boyfriend or Girlfriend may adjust any terms of this Agreement at any time. Doing so will require a THIRTY (30) day Notice to the other party in this Agreement. The changes to the Agreement will not be effective until the Notice period has passed. For example, Boyfriend proposes a change in Section 2 on November 12, 2019. Section 2’s changes will not be relevant until December 12, 2019, and therefore can not be used or enforced until such time.
By replying with “I agree to these terms”, you are agreeing to this Contract as well as the Terms & Conditions, and that this Agreement will be effective immediately. You also agree that the terms of this agreement may be changed at any point with proper Notice."

I realize that the above agreement was poorly thrown together and that this was not run by a lawyer, but I needed something to keep this scammer at bay for a few months and test their loyalties when it came to what they cared more about - me or money.
Anyways, that's all I have to say about this. Because of this experience, I'll never be able to trust anyone ever again, and I now have PTSD because of this. If you're Krista and you're reading this, go fuck yourself. For everyone else, I thank you for taking the time for reading through this. I realize how much of an idiot I was, and I am very disappointed in myself for not only letting this go on for the length of time that it did, but that I would even send money to someone I haven't met in person. It's safe to say that going forward, I will be much more strict and far less forgiving since I'm DONE with taking people's shit. Yes, I've blocked this person on everything I've ever talked with them on, and yes, I still have all her info and every shred of evidence on her if it's required in the future.
Anyways, I wanted to post this to not only tell my story but to spread awareness on this sub that there are psychopaths out there like Krista. Thanks again for reading, I really appreciate it.
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2020.06.24 03:36 Cryptographer_Bubbly Current State of POF

The title says it all. What is the current state of the app/website ? Personally I’ve used POF on and off since 2014 , had multiple accounts, never paid. There was times where bots were rampant , other times it was a good app to meet girls in the hood ( Milwaukee ) . But now this has got to be the worst state the app has ever been in. Bots are still everywhere , you have to wait 24 hours on meetme, you can’t search by username , by distance or by any metic really if you aren’t a paid user. Why pay ? Just so you can get instant access to message bots and girls with only fans accounts . Let’s not mention the new live stream BS meant to literally be soft core porn for simps to donate their life savings to wanna be thots too busted for Instagram 😂😂💀 boys just use tinder and chispa or even bumble . You will get laid much more often and they are 100% free and you can find a wife if that’s ur thing I met good girls on Chispa ( Latin tinder) and they were normal .
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2020.06.15 00:26 mccoyboy22 23 [M4F] Texas/Alberta/Anywhere Solo camping sucks when youre a bit of a cynic Pt.2

Alright this may be long. Im watching videos on youtube (at the time of riding motorcycle ones). Ill do my best to organize this in some way.
So pictures here as you can see im tall (6'3") white and athletic build. Im still working on the beard, usually I sport a mustache and go tee, looking like the Devil from Rick and Morty.
My name is Madison. Its been a blessing and a curse. A blessing in the sense that ive never met another guy with my name, a curse as the people ive met with my name are all girls. Therefore growing up new people always questioned whether or not I was lying.
I had an odd life growing up but as many people would say "it was normal to me". Im an open book but I want post it all here as its a long intricate story thats better told over the course of a conversation.
I dont post here often but I tend to have spurts of using dating apps (tinder, Meetme, okcupid, etc.) They all suck ass. (Not that theres anything wrong with that). Tinder sucks as most of the girls on there seem superficial, but thats probably stereotypes ingrained in my brain. Im the one who hates the superlike but does use it in hopes the teacher will notice me with my hand raised waiting for her to listen to my spiel. MeetMe sucks because 95% of the accounts seem to be bots, starting conversations with "Hi!' and the ones that arent dont seem to have their life remotely together (not that I do, but i do have goals and try to be responsible).
Im also horrible when falling for someone and it eats me alive as I kick myself for wanting to constantly talking to the person I fall for. Im not necessarily clingy but I grew up a hopeless romantic watching too many movies and imagining my occurrences with women to be as such. Growing older i tend to hold that back and try to act engaged but not eager. At this point in my life, I hate reading people and enjoy bluntness. I hate thinking im being too much and acting as a self critic. But honestly, id imagine this is a feeling Im alone in. Im sure many people watched youth and revolt and want to act the same way.
So a brief aside, last November I was engaged to a person a loved and had ups and downs with for 3 years. It ended up being mutual when we broke up around thanksgiving but its still a bummer. We're still friends and both respect each other. I will say that I'm lucky to date people who tend to somewhat have their head on their shoulders.
So me, let me put some brief goals. Ill divide this into definitely, likely, and dreams.
Definitely
note: Im afraid of two things. Spiders and getting a divorce. Ive seen it two many times, ive experienced it and I would never want to put someone through that (specifically kids). I could go on and on about my thoughts on my views on the dynamics of a relationship. They arent fucking easy peasy all the time (at least in my experience. I would love to find "the one" and for us to always be on the same level). Theres compromise, its work and I get that. My number one piece of advice would be communication. It seems to be the lifeline. But im getting off topic.
Likely
Dreams
Next I'll do my best to describe my personality. My strength and flaws. Im not perfect (although I try my best)
So I have many hobbies. I tend to pick up anything I find remotely interesting. Theres too much awesome stuff to not at least give a go at. The main stays have been video games, board games and watching youtube videos and baking/cooking. Ill list some of the assorted that come and go.
note: I always tend to "swipe left" on girls with really long fake nails. I appreciate someone who uses their hands to craft, garden, etc. basically do things. And I dont see how someone could with such long nails. lol it could also be personal taste.
Also, although im a huge skeptic of "personality test" I wont deny that ENTP-A describes me very well. Im very much a debater. Ill argue just about anything and like to do my best to see things from many perspectives. Im a devils advocate and some may think i take strange stances sometimes (especially in texas) I also have many ideas but so many flood my head that I tend to not pursue many of them. I would love a girl who could push me to my full potential. (but ill get to that.) Im also very scientific/logic/rational oriented. Im atheist and am fascinated by the scientific world (its a shame more people arent) If you believe in ghosts, crystals, etc. I will dig into it. I cant help it, which leads me to strengths and weaknesses.
Strengths
Weaknesses
note: alright so my family was shite growing up, im not gonna suger coat it. I dont speak with my father and i have a good relationship with my mother, but some things feel off and i can describe that more if youre interested. My recent ex's family was also strange. i wont deny that i fealt uncomfortable around them and maybe it was just her dad. but that doesnt mean i havent met families i love. I really want that "close knit family" so much so that if i cant find it, ill make it. but again, kids. Im a very caring person with a big heart. but i tend to put a lot of trust in people and its a blow to my emotions when they dont take how much i care seriously. but i tend to always give multiple chances, its just how i got shaped as a kid (which is its own story)
So what am i looking for? Well a girl. someone i find attractive. someone who talks to me about whats on their mind whatever it may be. who's interested in strange but interesting facts (like rice cookers) and uses reason and logic. who can hold a deep and meaningful conversation on a variety of topics from science to history. who's open minded and willing to try new things. who isnt picky when it comes to food. who's willing to be active and lazy with me. whos ok with spontaneous trips, ideas, hobbies and is willing and eager to do them with me. who can be responsible and take charge when need be but also trust me to do the same. who has goals and some sort of roadmap whether it be super structured or not. whos ok with pushing me to improve and vice versa. and whos ok with being dorky sometimes.
i thought about skipping this but i might as well add it, ive already added so much why stop now. SEX! lol, im ok with waiting, but not till marriage. I tend to be very open minded in bed and enjoy pleasing my partner. i'd hope they were the same. Im not one for one night stands or hookups, i just tend to enjoy something emotional.
alright, if you made it this far you must be somewhat intrigued. i understand it was long but id rather give it a lot of effort once than half ass it multiple times. i also know that not everyone would find this appealing but thats fine, thats how we work. id rather people who are genuinely interested (although i enjoy chatting)
thanks for your time and please stop by my dms if you are curious
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2020.05.24 00:34 Charaznable89 This was on May 16th, on the social networking app know as "MeetMe". She blocked me. Most likely for all the Atheist Memes on my profile. I was on a "Live Broadcast" with the camera faciNg my blanket while I was typing. Such a shame. She was gorgeous. 😂

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2020.05.14 15:54 redneck_ancap What I’m afraid of and why I haven’t done it yet

I’m a 19 year old incel redneck green anarchist stoner. I’m really not going anywhere in life or doing anything worthwhile according to most people and I can see it. With me graduating and shit this year cuz I got held back in third grade a few people ask me “where do you see yourself in 10 years?”. The honest answer to that is doing the same shit: killing animals, starting fires, running around the woods, writing shit, yeno the deal. I don’t have much of anything to look forward to, it’s became apparent that Something is wrong with me (my face) that keeps me from forming intimate connections with the opposite sex. In real life I stand no chance, girls don’t even look at me. Sometimes I manage to talk to girls online but it always dries up to where they either ghost me or barely talk to me. If we’re being realistic I will be alone forever
About late April or early May in 2023 I plan to go up to Alaska way out in the wilderness and live the rest of my days out there by the skin of my teeth like people would have a few hundred years ago. That’s how humans are supposed to live, but what worries me is that I’ll die out there and be forgotten.
The reason I haven’t just killed my self already is because with the shit I do, the manifesto I’m working on as well as the wilderness living guide, my Instagram page, all of it, will one day inspire somebody or a few people who were like me to do the same thing, buy an axe and a rifle and squat in the wilderness off the land. That’s why I haven’t done it yet. I wish to inspire socially rejected men to drop society. Socially rejected men should drop out of society as society does little to benefit them. Imagine going through your entire 75+ year lifespan, never receiving attention from a female that you did not pay for. That’s no fucking life, slaving away for corporations just to go home to an empty house and sleep in an empty cold bed. That is not what we were promised. Just be a nice guy, get a good education and good job, they say. Just work out and brush your teeth and shower they say. What they don’t say is that this stuff only worked for them because they are attractive to begin with.
I wasn’t always like this, I used to lift and take better care of my hygiene and try to talk to girls and I was on tinder and MeetMe and I do all sorts of adventures innawoods and I know lots of shit about my philosophy and I was nice and all that. I did what they said and I did it all throughout high school and it did not work. I am still an incel virgin loser. When I saw that shit wasn’t working I stopped it all. Fuck lifting, it doesn’t get you a girlfriend. Fuck haircuts, it doesn’t make your face any better anyway. Fuck shaving, your white trash joe dirt facial hair helps hide your disgusting jaw anyway. Fuck trying to be nice when nobody respects you either way.
There is something so damn liberating about running around the woods with worn out boots and a cut off flannel shirt with long hair and going days without bathing that most people will never understand, but something is still always missing at the end of the day. Like 85% of males my age are no longer virgins. I am the 15%. The average age to have your first kiss is 14. Unless your mom counts I am far passed that. I have missed out on too much and the chances I come back are not high.
Anyway if you read all this you probably think I’m schizophrenic or something. Mental illness is a passive form of resistance. An escape from this design. The concept of mental health is largely defined by how well an individual works within the techno industrial system and how well they conform to meet the systems needs.
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2020.05.12 06:26 mccoyboy22 23 [M4F] Texas/Alberta/Anywhere Long post, i tried my best to organize it

Alright this may be long. Im watching videos on youtube (at the time of riding motorcycle ones). Ill do my best to organize this in some way.
So pictures here as you can see im tall (6'3") white and athletic build. Im still working on the beard, usually I sport a mustache and go tee, looking like the Devil from Rick and Morty.
My name is Madison. Its been a blessing and a curse. A blessing in the sense that ive never met another guy with my name, a curse as the people ive met with my name are all girls. Therefore growing up new people always questioned whether or not I was lying.
I had an odd life growing up but as many people would say "it was normal to me". Im an open book but I want post it all here as its a long intricate story thats better told over the course of a conversation.
I dont post here often but I tend to have spurts of using dating apps (tinder, Meetme, okcupid, etc.) They all suck ass. (Not that theres anything wrong with that). Tinder sucks as most of the girls on there seem superficial, but thats probably stereotypes ingrained in my brain. Im the one who hates the superlike but does use it in hopes the teacher will notice me with my hand raised waiting for her to listen to my spiel. MeetMe sucks because 95% of the accounts seem to be bots, starting conversations with "Hi!' and the ones that arent dont seem to have their life remotely together (not that I do, but i do have goals and try to be responsible).
Im also horrible when falling for someone and it eats me alive as I kick myself for wanting to constantly talking to the person I fall for. Im not necessarily clingy but I grew up a hopeless romantic watching too many movies and imagining my occurrences with women to be as such. Growing older i tend to hold that back and try to act engaged but not eager. At this point in my life, I hate reading people and enjoy bluntness. I hate thinking im being too much and acting as a self critic. But honestly, id imagine this is a feeling Im alone in. Im sure many people watched youth and revolt and want to act the same way.
So a brief aside, last November I was engaged to a person a loved and had ups and downs with for 3 years. It ended up being mutual when we broke up around thanksgiving but its still a bummer. We're still friends and both respect each other. I will say that I'm lucky to date people who tend to somewhat have their head on their shoulders.
So me, let me put some brief goals. Ill divide this into definitely, likely, and dreams.
Definitely
note: Im afraid of two things. Spiders and getting a divorce. Ive seen it two many times, ive experienced it and I would never want to put someone through that (specifically kids). I could go on and on about my thoughts on my views on the dynamics of a relationship. They arent fucking easy peasy all the time (at least in my experience. I would love to find "the one" and for us to always be on the same level). Theres compromise, its work and I get that. My number one piece of advice would be communication. It seems to be the lifeline. But im getting off topic.
Likely
Dreams
Next I'll do my best to describe my personality. My strength and flaws. Im not perfect (although I try my best)
So I have many hobbies. I tend to pick up anything I find remotely interesting. Theres too much awesome stuff to not at least give a go at. The main stays have been video games, board games and watching youtube videos and baking/cooking. Ill list some of the assorted that come and go.
note: I always tend to "swipe left" on girls with really long fake nails. I appreciate someone who uses their hands to craft, garden, etc. basically do things. And I dont see how someone could with such long nails. lol it could also be personal taste.
Also, although im a huge skeptic of "personality test" I wont deny that ENTP-A describes me very well. Im very much a debater. Ill argue just about anything and like to do my best to see things from many perspectives. Im a devils advocate and some may think i take strange stances sometimes (especially in texas) I also have many ideas but so many flood my head that I tend to not pursue many of them. I would love a girl who could push me to my full potential. (but ill get to that.) Im also very scientific/logic/rational oriented. Im atheist and am fascinated by the scientific world (its a shame more people arent) If you believe in ghosts, crystals, etc. I will dig into it. I cant help it, which leads me to strengths and weaknesses.
Strengths
Weaknesses
note: alright so my family was shite growing up, im not gonna suger coat it. I dont speak with my father and i have a good relationship with my mother, but some things feel off and i can describe that more if youre interested. My recent ex's family was also strange. i wont deny that i fealt uncomfortable around them and maybe it was just her dad. but that doesnt mean i havent met families i love. I really want that "close knit family" so much so that if i cant find it, ill make it. but again, kids. Im a very caring person with a big heart. but i tend to put a lot of trust in people and its a blow to my emotions when they dont take how much i care seriously. but i tend to always give multiple chances, its just how i got shaped as a kid (which is its own story)
So what am i looking for? Well a girl. someone i find attractive. someone who talks to me about whats on their mind whatever it may be. who's interested in strange but interesting facts (like rice cookers) and uses reason and logic. who can hold a deep and meaningful conversation on a variety of topics from science to history. who's open minded and willing to try new things. who isnt picky when it comes to food. who's willing to be active and lazy with me. whos ok with spontaneous trips, ideas, hobbies and is willing and eager to do them with me. who can be responsible and take charge when need be but also trust me to do the same. who has goals and some sort of roadmap whether it be super structured or not. whos ok with pushing me to improve and vice versa. and whos ok with being dorky sometimes.
i thought about skipping this but i might as well add it, ive already added so much why stop now. SEX! lol, im ok with waiting, but not till marriage. I tend to be very open minded in bed and enjoy pleasing my partner. i'd hope they were the same. Im not one for one night stands or hookups, i just tend to enjoy something emotional.
alright, if you made it this far you must be somewhat intrigued. i understand it was long but id rather give it a lot of effort once than half ass it multiple times. i also know that not everyone would find this appealing but thats fine, thats how we work. id rather people who are genuinely interested (although i enjoy chatting)
thanks for your time and please stop by my dms if you are curious
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2020.05.12 06:12 mccoyboy22 23 [M4F] Texas/Alberta/Anywhere Long description with pictures. Lol try and read it all.

Alright this may be long. Im watching videos on youtube (at the time of riding motorcycle ones). Ill do my best to organize this in some way.
So pictures here as you can see im tall (6'3") white and athletic build. Im still working on the beard, usually I sport a mustache and go tee, looking like the Devil from Rick and Morty.
My name is Madison. Its been a blessing and a curse. A blessing in the sense that ive never met another guy with my name, a curse as the people ive met with my name are all girls. Therefore growing up new people always questioned whether or not I was lying.
I had an odd life growing up but as many people would say "it was normal to me". Im an open book but I want post it all here as its a long intricate story thats better told over the course of a conversation.
I dont post here often but I tend to have spurts of using dating apps (tinder, Meetme, okcupid, etc.) They all suck ass. (Not that theres anything wrong with that). Tinder sucks as most of the girls on there seem superficial, but thats probably stereotypes ingrained in my brain. Im the one who hates the superlike but does use it in hopes the teacher will notice me with my hand raised waiting for her to listen to my spiel. MeetMe sucks because 95% of the accounts seem to be bots, starting conversations with "Hi!' and the ones that arent dont seem to have their life remotely together (not that I do, but i do have goals and try to be responsible).
Im also horrible when falling for someone and it eats me alive as I kick myself for wanting to constantly talking to the person I fall for. Im not necessarily clingy but I grew up a hopeless romantic watching too many movies and imagining my occurrences with women to be as such. Growing older i tend to hold that back and try to act engaged but not eager. At this point in my life, I hate reading people and enjoy bluntness. I hate thinking im being too much and acting as a self critic. But honestly, id imagine this is a feeling Im alone in. Im sure many people watched youth and revolt and want to act the same way.
So a brief aside, last November I was engaged to a person a loved and had ups and downs with for 3 years. It ended up being mutual when we broke up around thanksgiving but its still a bummer. We're still friends and both respect each other. I will say that I'm lucky to date people who tend to somewhat have their head on their shoulders.
So me, let me put some brief goals. Ill divide this into definitely, likely, and dreams.
Definitely
note: Im afraid of two things. Spiders and getting a divorce. Ive seen it two many times, ive experienced it and I would never want to put someone through that (specifically kids). I could go on and on about my thoughts on my views on the dynamics of a relationship. They arent fucking easy peasy all the time (at least in my experience. I would love to find "the one" and for us to always be on the same level). Theres compromise, its work and I get that. My number one piece of advice would be communication. It seems to be the lifeline. But im getting off topic.
Likely
Dreams
Next I'll do my best to describe my personality. My strength and flaws. Im not perfect (although I try my best)
So I have many hobbies. I tend to pick up anything I find remotely interesting. Theres too much awesome stuff to not at least give a go at. The main stays have been video games, board games and watching youtube videos and baking/cooking. Ill list some of the assorted that come and go.
note: I always tend to "swipe left" on girls with really long fake nails. I appreciate someone who uses their hands to craft, garden, etc. basically do things. And I dont see how someone could with such long nails. lol it could also be personal taste.
Also, although im a huge skeptic of "personality test" I wont deny that ENTP-A describes me very well. Im very much a debater. Ill argue just about anything and like to do my best to see things from many perspectives. Im a devils advocate and some may think i take strange stances sometimes (especially in texas) I also have many ideas but so many flood my head that I tend to not pursue many of them. I would love a girl who could push me to my full potential. (but ill get to that.) Im also very scientific/logic/rational oriented. Im atheist and am fascinated by the scientific world (its a shame more people arent) If you believe in ghosts, crystals, etc. I will dig into it. I cant help it, which leads me to strengths and weaknesses.
Strengths
Weaknesses
note: alright so my family was shite growing up, im not gonna suger coat it. I dont speak with my father and i have a good relationship with my mother, but some things feel off and i can describe that more if youre interested. My recent ex's family was also strange. i wont deny that i fealt uncomfortable around them and maybe it was just her dad. but that doesnt mean i havent met families i love. I really want that "close knit family" so much so that if i cant find it, ill make it. but again, kids. Im a very caring person with a big heart. but i tend to put a lot of trust in people and its a blow to my emotions when they dont take how much i care seriously. but i tend to always give multiple chances, its just how i got shaped as a kid (which is its own story)
So what am i looking for? Well a girl. someone i find attractive. someone who talks to me about whats on their mind whatever it may be. who's interested in strange but interesting facts (like rice cookers) and uses reason and logic. who can hold a deep and meaningful conversation on a variety of topics from science to history. who's open minded and willing to try new things. who isnt picky when it comes to food. who's willing to be active and lazy with me. whos ok with spontaneous trips, ideas, hobbies and is willing and eager to do them with me. who can be responsible and take charge when need be but also trust me to do the same. who has goals and some sort of roadmap whether it be super structured or not. whos ok with pushing me to improve and vice versa. and whos ok with being dorky sometimes.
i thought about skipping this but i might as well add it, ive already added so much why stop now. SEX! lol, im ok with waiting, but not till marriage. I tend to be very open minded in bed and enjoy pleasing my partner. i'd hope they were the same. Im not one for one night stands or hookups, i just tend to enjoy something emotional.
alright, if you made it this far you must be somewhat intrigued. i understand it was long but id rather give it a lot of effort once than half ass it multiple times. i also know that not everyone would find this appealing but thats fine, thats how we work. id rather people who are genuinely interested (although i enjoy chatting)
thanks for your time and please stop by my dms if you are curious
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2020.04.21 00:49 LillianRazor A Story while back about my first boyfriend

I was a freshman in college when this all started we had met through this app called MeetMe ( basically a tinder for teens.) He was 20 I was 17 not a bad age difference. And it was towards the end of the school year everything was great, he was in the military ( Army reserve)very family oriented and cute dog name Guinness. He was my first actually boyfriend and my first. And it wasn't still a month later till problems started he would make excuses not to see me. I took the bate as he said he was doing things for the army or family or working. Until one night him and I and my friend and her boyfriend, had a great night then when we returned back to her place and my boyfriend left a few hours texted me saying we can't be together anymore I was super confused. And he was telling the story how he had been tricked on a Facebook call with a girl and she had tricked him to jerk off in front of her and then the girl appears to be a man. And said he needed to pay $10,000 or the video leaked to everyone. As the good person I am I said I'm not mad I'm disappointed but I still wanted to help him as I wanna avoid a break up. But unfortunately he blocked me and I couldn't get in contact with him. (A weeks later I had found out that I was pregnant but unfortunately a few weeks later I had a miscarriage.)
So then a few months later from that and I had moved on from him and I was starting my sophomore year of college I was on bumble and I happen to see his profile I swiped right and we started talking again. And he had apologize about what happened and said he wanted to try again. And me being a very forgiving person I said sure let's try again and of course I mentioned about the miscarriage and everything he was very upset about that. So then after a week it was good then it went to shit he asked to come over in the middle of the night (which I did) several times and to note he still lived with his parents. I had to sneak over there by Uber and come back by Uber. And I started to miss lots of days of school because of him, and then he started to ask weird questions especially sexual questions such as having a threesome to which I said no and he got mad at me for.
And over sometime he would leave me on read on hours on end and say he was busy and what not and of course I believed him. Then he started blocking me and then unblocking me over and over again the cycle would start again. Then he friends me on Facebook (after over 4 months) and I see this girl on his Facebook who he was taking pictures with and I asked him about it and he said she's just a friend and I believed it because I don't wanna be a jealous bitch. And then he leaves for California he said he was going on vacation with his family on Disneyland, then a few days later pictures of him and this girl appears on Facebook and they look all lovely dovely. And comments say how they were so cute together I was hurt very but I didn't mention anything to him. ( This was the first girl)
A few months later he is leaving for deployment with the military of course I said I'll keep contact but after a while it stopped and then it started again how he missed me and how he wanted a family with me I took the bate and then I saw he had an Instagram. I asked him about it he said yeah I just made to keep it as a diary. I followed him and he followed back and I'm going threw and I see this one girl calling him babe on his post and stuff so I digged a little deeper which didn't take that long and saw the had another girl!( Long story short I told her what he's been doing and she broke with him and her and I are now really good friends.) (Girl 2) He found out what I did he apologized and begging for another chance which I said yes (I'm such a dumbass).
Of course I'm being on his ass even though it's hard as he's on deployment he said he tried hard he sent me flowers and a ring for my birthday and proposed over Skype to me and to which I said yes and I thought he was changing till I get a Facebook message from a girl to ask me if I knew him I said yes he's my fiance. And to which she replied to me oh I didn't know he said he was single! And when he was in California on that trip to Disneyland he had sex with another girl! ( Girl 3) i immediately texted him about her and of course he said sorry and I was just jaded about he was doing I just gave up and stopped talking to him.
A month later he texted me about him coming home and wanting to see me again to try again I was hesitant about it and of course I knew I was gonna get fooled again if I had tried again which I didn't. I said to stop and that it was over.
P.s. Now I'm in a happy relationship with a guy which my friends introduce me to and he has shown me what love should be.
P.s.s and I found out that he had cheated on me with 5 other girl and I was the only one to get a ring and I pawned it lol.
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